I’d like to take my time in marriage. Yes, you do see your friends getting married to someone,one by one, everyone’s so called ‘leaving’ you. But that’s their fate. Maybe they’re meant to get married early or maybe after that get divorced early too. =P What I’m trying to say is “Why the Rush”?You’ve got your life to lead. You’ve got bills to pay and you know marriage is not “cheap”. You keep saying that you’ll marry someone else by all means go ahead. I can’t stand you saying that in front of me when you’re actually my so-called “girlfriend”. I understand your situation and stuff but that doesn’t mean rushing and hurting me in the process. Things to you,may not look good between us but I have my ways of processing this whole thing to be have a successful marriage life. One thing for sure is that you underestimate me because you’re already a full-time worker where else I’m just a boy waiting to enter National Service before I go into working life. That’s fine,I understand where you’re getting to. But I’m not all that. You see,people research to build good marriage lives and there are also those who actually go with the flow but that does not mean they’ll have what they expect it to be. As for me,I study these kind of stuff. The way I’m doing stuff to you may make me look like a super bad boyfriend but if we’re fated to be together and get married,then you’ll know the difference between our “old-aged marriage”(your rendition),to your “young couple” friends. All I’m asking is for time and your patience. I really am planning out all these stuff and not just borrow people’s money,get married and just try to survive. I want my family to have a good life and bring my kids up in a good environment. I want a happy and a ‘till death do us part’ marriage. That’s all I want.
